Tuesday, 25 November 2014
Good Mornings = Good Days
Yesterday, the kids' school had a PD day, so we didn't have to get up in the morning at any specific time. I didn't have to make any lunches. And I got up even earlier than usual. Sleeping in does not make me feel good. It sometimes gives me headaches. What does make me feel good, however, is the quiet peaceful house early in the morning. Just me, a mug of tea, and a twinkling Christmas tree.
It has taken me years to get back to this point of being able to wake up before my kids. Even after they consistently slept through the night—even twelve or thirteen hours—they would wake up the instant I set foot outside my bedroom door. Talk about frustrating! All I wanted was half an hour of quiet time to myself, yet every attempt I made resulted in kids waking too early, and possibly being cranky all day.
Now, though, they can both read a clock. At least well enough to determine what hour it is. My 5-year-old sometimes gets the minutes and hours mixed up. On weekends, when they are told to sleep, or play quietly in their rooms until 8:00, he'll sometimes come out at 6:58 or something, saying, "There's an eight on my clock!" So I shoo him back to bed and he goes reluctantly.
Since the start of the school year, I've begun to add purpose and routine to my early mornings. The first thing I do, after (usually) making my bed and coming downstairs, is put the kettle on (just call me Polly), then make my daughter's lunch for school. I have only missed this on one day, and then I had to scramble to throw something together last minute before we ran out the door. I don't intend to forget again.
Once my tea is steeped, and the school lunches and snacks are all packed away, and any homework or other school paper signed, I sit down with my bible and my hot tea—next to the Christmas tree these days. A couple of months ago, I joined the Hello Mornings challenge. The purpose of the challenge is to build habits around three things: spending time with God, planning your day, and exercising. I still haven't worked out the daily exercising habit, but the other two are going well. When the 6-week challenge was over, I wasn't sure I would keep it up. But my motivation now comes from a different source: an audience.
You see, when I finish my tea-making and lunch-packing, my husband is still home. He likes quiet in the mornings too, so he doesn't interrupt the peaceful start of the day I need. Unless he needs his shirt ironed, which I actually love to do for him. But when the challenge ended, I had a choice. It was the first Monday after, I had my tea in hand, and since he was using the computer, my choices were to grab my iPhone or grab my bible. Well, I couldn't have Kevin seeing me slacking off, after six weeks of devoted devotions, now could I?
I'm still working on building other habits into my routine, because when I have a good, productive, peaceful early morning, I have a much better day. I'm much less cranky. And I have more patience for my kids, who seem to take positively forever to get dressed, eat breakfast, brush their teeth, and put on their outdoor gear.
And apparently, judging by today, I'm much more motivated to put my thoughts into a blog post when I've had an early morning.